Your Money DNA: It isn’t your fault!
Over the last 20 years of working with clients, I have found that people don’t like talking about money.
It makes them too uncomfortable.
For most people it is harder to have an honest conversation about money than it is to talk about sex or childhood trauma.
We are all ‘knotted up’ about money.
To us, money represents so much more than dollars and cents.
It is tied up to our deepest emotional needs for love, power, security, control, independence and self-worth.
It’s impossible to be an adult and not have some deep-seated beliefs about money and the way that it fits into our lives.
Most people never questions their beliefs so their fortunes never change.
Our beliefs are not based on science or truth, they are simply stories repeated like a mantra.
These crippling beliefs about money don’t just show up in finances, they also show up in our personal relationships.
Take the belief of ‘I am unworthy’ for instance.
You see straight away what I mean.
Unworthiness isn’t confined to cash.
It shows up in deep nurturing relationships.
Unworthiness creates doubts about being truly loved.
Uncertainty impacts negatively in the relationship which struggles or even fails.
It also shows up in happiness.
The belief that happiness is not OK creates doubt in our minds about if we are happy or not.
We might feel guilty for others who may be unhappy, and even ashamed because maybe it’s a sign of failure.
That means that happiness is always tinged with uncertainty.
All we have talked about is unworthiness.
There are a million of these old crack pot ideas.
- Money is the root of all evil.
- The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
I could go on forever, but what we need to do is track down these beliefs; expose them for what they really are!
And in order to accomplish this task, it would be wise if we started healing first- acknowledging that some damage has been done.
Because what you resist, persists.
Tune into this video, about your base chakra, to learn how you can start healing your relationship with money and building a prosperous life.
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